Couples Therapy
in Leiden and The Hague
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Are you looking to build a more fulfilling and happy relationship with your partner? Are you willing to actively work for it?
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Do you need help managing conflict, understanding each other better, reviving passion, or rediscovering your shared purpose?
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βAre you seeking an effective, research-supported, and compassionate method to building the skills necessary for a successful relationship?

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Our Method
The Gottman Method, developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, is based on 40 years of research studying over 3,000 couples, making it one of the most evidence-based approaches in couples therapy. This method equips couples with effective tools to improve their relationship satisfaction and longevity, emphasizing practical strategies grounded in extensive data.
First, a comprehensive assessment is conducted to identify strengths and challenges within a relationship, setting the stage for personalized interventions. Treatment tools include "Love Maps" to deepen understanding, "The Four Horsemen" to improve communication, "Dreams Within Conflict" to uncover deeper issues behind the disagreements, and goals and values identification.
The Gottman Method aims to strengthen relationships by helping the couple manage the conflicts in an effective and productive way, deepening their understanding and respect, and teaching partners how to express their needs while recognizing those of their partner. It focuses on helping couples achieve their individual and shared life dreams, fostering a sense of shared meaning.
Studies show that the Gottman Method produces significant improvements in couples' lives, especially in communication, conflict management, and emotional connection, leading to more resilient and satisfying relationships. Clients can anticipate not only learning how to manage their conflicts in a skillful way, but also developing stronger bonds, and a deeper and lasting connection.




